Closing the gap between not drinking and actually living

Wholeness-Based Recovery Coaching

who i am

Hi, I’m Ashley Kelsch, and I know the mental gymnastics of trying to control drinking, food, or anything that quiets the noise.
I help women close the gap between not drinking and actually living—through wholeness-based recovery coaching.

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I work with women at three stages:

Questioning their drinking

Not sure you want to quit, but you know something needs to change

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Maintaining sobriety but living a split life

Performing "good" on the outside while struggling behind the scenes

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Ready to build sobriety from the inside out

Done white-knuckling and ready for the deeper work that creates freedom

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Next Steps

Woman with short brown hair smiling and sitting on a green sofa, wearing a peach-colored satin pajamas and white slippers, in a corner of a room with white and black walls.

Ready to close the gap?

Explore the Programs

From 6-week exploration to 6-month deep integration—find the program that matches where you are.

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Learn About My Approach

All new clients begin with a discovery call—a conversation about where you are and whether this work feels like a fit.

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this side of sober: A newsletter

this side of sober: A newsletter

Weekly reflections on the deeper work of recovery—for women who want to close the gap between not drinking and actually living.

Maybe you've stopped drinking. Or you're thinking about it.

Either way, you know there's more to this than just not drinking.

Welcome to this side.